MYTHS about ABUSE

MYTH — If someone acts “fine,” they can’t be a sexual assault, sexual abuse, child abuse, domestic abuse, sibling abuse victim. WRONG — victims hide the abuse including children. You hide it out of shame and fear and even because of suppressed memories . 
Because you don't report your abuse right away you are lying, making up abuse. WRONG
Because you didn't tell anyone you must be lying about your abuse. WRONG
 
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Abuse is only committed by men. WRONG
Abuse is only committed by men on drugs and alcohol. WRONG
All men are violent. WRONG
Anyone preaching and shouting these words in the media needs to stop talking now. Your words are wrong miss-leading, and very dangerous words to preach. You are very uneducated about abuse.
You are inciting abuse and degradation of children, women and men world wide.   READ ARTICLE
Abuse does not discriminate, it never has. It effects all sexes all ages, all genders, all religions and social statues.  

Because you didn't leave its your fault. 
You must have done something to piss them off, so its your fault they hit you, child or adult. WRONG
An abuser will use many control factors over a victim; child or an adult. It is never your fault as a victim of any abuse.
If you have children they use the children, they will use threats, death threats, threats to another person, threats to your pet, financial abuse, psychological abuse, Degradation, isolation; are the most common.

Because you cant remember the exact day, month, year, what you had for breakfast that day, you are lying. WRONG
Our brains are not wired to remember things like this, scientific fact. READ HERE

When you have also gone through a physical or emotional trauma, your brain goes into fight —flight —freeze mode. This is the simplest way to explain this.
Your brain experiences a massive biochemical change, that you have no control over.
Floods of adrenaline and cortisol to your bloodstream, and a cascade of physiological events, such as increased heart rate, respiration rate, and blood pressure; suppressed immune and digestive functioning; dilation of the pupils and shifting of attention to a vigilant state; which means you will look down or around when talking, or even have a blank stare.
These are all natural responses to any sort of trauma.  READ ARTICLE HERE

Screaming and yelling at your child and hitting your child; is abuse. It is Psychological and physical abuse. 
Verbal abuse is child abuse, and those scars last for life for a child and can have long lasting health effects. Anxiety and PTSD.

Verbal abuse to an adult is also abuse, it is also Psychological abuse by the words and actions of the abuser. 
The 4 D's to Psychological abuse Article 

Anxiety from abuse, trauma The memories, the psychological abuse lasts a life time.
Anxiety, PTSD, anorexia, cutting, OCD, high bloody pressure, binge eating, heart attache, health problems, even cardiomyopathy which is a heart condition; from anxiety from being a victim of abuse. Children and adults resort to self-harm — cutting when underlying emotions are overwhelming.
This sums up perfectly the symptoms, the effects of anxiety, we wanted to share this with any one who is suffering from anxiety. You are not alone and do not let anyone shame you for having anxiety. Anxiety can happen to adults and children even the family pet.

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder — PTSD — Anxiety Article

Please seek medical attention from your doctor, if you are suffering from anxiety.


Sexual abuse, abuse, sibling abuse, domestic abuse awareness is every single day. Much more education is needed within family units, within our society, and Governments.
Silence and a Diffusion of responsibility hides that violence and abuse. This is something we are always speaking about and write in our articles.
The right educators are needed, sadly that is not happening. 
We need Psychologist who specialize in abuse, who understand all the Psychological, and medical issues that can arise because of abuse — all abuse including sexual abuse. 

At the moment we have too many people standing in the media miss-informing about abuse, their words are actual inciting violence and abuse, degradation of the sexes, degradation of victims and survivors of abuse, they are also victim blaming.
We have people claiming to be advocates to end abuse, yet they are being condescending, degrading, victim blaming to victims of abuse, and especially to those with medical agrees and who also specialize in abuse.
The amount of times we have been abused, because as professionals we raise awareness, is disgusting. 
We have had words with many who we have caught doing this.
They are UN-educated about all aspects of abuse. Their words and actions are doing far more damage than good, they are costing the lives of real people, and they are so Narcissistic they can not even see this.
Again we see this dangerous practice of people looking to make a quick buck of abuse; Unbelievable.
And you should absolutely not be making money off abuse.  

This is a Press Release Update:

NLP are setting up to profit off abuse and domestic violence Rosie Batty works for Turnbull, profiting from abuse, now Turnbull wants to do the same thing. We wrote this in 2015, and now Labor who support us, have confirmed this very thing. We have nominated one of our own professionals for Australian of the Year 2017, Alexandria. You can read about Alexandria through the article links here
You can read the articles exposing this and exposing Miss Batty here and Here

 Now you have the entire picture why Domestic Violence is ignored in Australia by the LNP Government and Malcolm Turnbull. Why he and Tony Abbott ripped the $300 million from the domestic violence budget, closed shelters, took away legal funding, and the same funding was ripped away from mental health, and homeless. His Grand plan is to profit from these crimes, from the suffering of millions of people. Absolutely Disgraceful.

There is simply no excuse for abuse. And if you are a victim of abuse, it is not your fault. Never let anyone shame you into saying it is; especially not your abuser, society or the police.

Domestic Violence — Abuse does not respect Gender Article

Abuse Does Not Discriminate Article

Abuse — leaves Invisible Scars Article

Scars — Vulnerability Article Link HERE

MASQUERDARE — Emotional triggers Article 

Family Court — Broken Justice Article

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder — PTSD — Anxiety Article

Bullying — Psychological Abuse Artcile

The Honey Trap — The 4 D's to Abuse Article

 All of those articles are addressing abuse, child abuse, sexual abuse, sibling abuse and domestic abuse, we really urge you to read those article and become better educated about abuse- all forms. There are far too many people uneducated about abuse the effect of abuse, even over a life time. People standing in the media inciting violence and abuse. People trying to make money off abuse.

 

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Last year we were nominated for a Humanitarian Award.
This year one of our own Alexandria has been nominated for an Australian of the year award 2017.