SEXUAL ASSAULT AWARENESS MONTH APRIL 2016 — Shatter the silence of sexual assault, rape and abuse. These crimes do not discriminate —  they happen to children, teens, young and older adults, women and men — all races, all social statues.

Sexual assault happens in relationship and marriages — it can happen to anyone at any time.

An abuser, a rapist will use threats, intimidation to keep their victims silent from speaking out. They are then free to keep on abusing another victim; and they will. And the nightmare begins all over again for another victim, or for you, the same victim, who is sexually abused over an over again inside a relationship.

Shatter the silence, take back your power over your abuser, don't hide in the darkness any more, come into the light.

 Most victims first experienced sexual violence before age 25.

We live in a society where books such as Fifty Shades of Grey is glamorizing sexual abuse, rape, stalking, abuse, control as romance, as an acceptable practice — when it is not. These are all crimes and should be treated as just this.

The education for prevention has to start with us as a society, teaching right and wrong to our children, make our children aware to the dangers of abuse.

Our media has to stop promoting sexual abuse, rape, abuse as a fairy- tale hearts and flowers love story when its not.

When you sexual violence you make the violence invisible to society. 

Sexual abuse, abuse, rape, being stalked by your abuser, being a victim of these terrible crimes destroys lives, takes lives of the victim.

The victim is left with a life time sentence. 

Our society needs to wake up to the epidemic of abuse, sexual abuse-violence sweeping our nations, a public health crisis. 

Books and movies such as Fifty Shades of Grey is teaching violence against women, children, teens.

Children — teens — adults are learning sexual violence from video games, from pornography which is streaming free into peoples homes. (external article links are highlighted)

Eight year old children are raping another child, from watching porn full article link Here

Colleges in the USA removed Fifty Shades of Grey from their libraries because of rapes — the books and then the movie became a how to guide to rape, sexual abuse, stalk, violate, abuse another person.
Keeping women, or anyone as sex slaves is sexual abuse, abuse and the actions of a Sociopath and Psychopath.

 Pornography A Public Health Crisis US Capitol Hill Symposium.
This is a medial symposium the top medical people in the world who specialize in the field of abuse, sexual violence. Our people attended the symposium. Hundreds of published medical findings
studies has definitively found pornography is contributing, teaching domestic violence, sexual abuse, rape, disrespect to women, girls.
Psychologist call internet pornography the new crack cocaine.
The studies also found the higher Psychopath scores were from boys and men who were addicted to pornography, teaching young boys to act like Psychopaths.

This video, the vital medical information it contains is what our Governments of not want exposed; our Governments around the world make billions of the porn industry, money of the rape of babies, children, adults, the sexual abuse and domestic violence of human beings.

 Read the Full article here

Abuse and sexual abuse leaves invisible scars

 Zero responsibility was taken by the so called author Erica James for the utter trash Fifty Shades of Grey; she tried to write. The books and movies should have warning label; "Attention dangerous to society to your health, keep out of read of children at all times."

 Erica James sexualized the violence to take your attention away from it. When you sexualize violence you make the violence invisible to the reader and to society. 

This utter dribble of sexual violence, rape, stalking, abuse, violence and not BDSM but sadomasochism is dangerous to our society. (external links are highlighted)

This entire franchise and Erica James is about how much money can they make of abuse, putting more lives in danger, promoting sexual violence to our children.

And if you are a teenager and read this R rated rubbish of porn, (also breaking the law) because that's what is is PORN, this is not what happens in a relationship between two normal people, this is not what happens when you lose your vaginity. (or saw the movie)

All the medical information wrong, the BDSM which it wasn't wrong, putting lives in danger; and it did just that. A child was raped and killed. Women were raped, stalked, marriages, relationships broke down, because of these books and movie.

Christian Grey personifies a complete Psychopath, this is a guy you would never let your daughter date, marry or go any where near, no matter how much dam money he had.

This type of relationship ends one way, the women fleeing for her life with the children.
As medical people we see the victims, the Anastasia's who were married to a Christian Grey in real life; beaten, threatened, battered and some of those women go through much worse.
The more money and power the greater the abuse; an absolute fact.
Leading medical people from all over the world called out these books and movie as abuse, violence, domestic violence, rape, torture, control, promoting violence to our society, to our children. The articles and evidence is in those links that are all highlighted. 
Even leading syndicated TV shows from around the world started to expose this rubbish as abuse and were furious and disgusted.
Erica James was just happy she could bring violence, abuse into relationships and destroy them, because all she see's like the franchise is the dollar signs. Zero regard for society, but she would not let her teenage boys read the books or watch the movie; because their mother is sexually abusing 15 year old boys and women in the books.
Erica James is directly quoted; the books are based on her life experiences her life and yes we have the video of her saying this on National TV.

Right through the four books, Grey being the most violent; Christian Grey is still controlling, abusive in book three.

Erica James sexualized the violence to take your attention away from it. When you sexualize violence you make the violence invisible to the reader and to society.

Society has a growing health crisis of sexual abuse, domestic violence, rape and stalking and here we have Erica James and the Franchise of Fifty Shades of Grey promoting all of these crimes as romance, also breaking child media protection laws in doing so.

This dribble of sexual violence is contributing to the health epidemic sweeping our nations.

It is the people who get off on sexual violence, abuse, rape, control and porn who will not, and do not want to see it either, the dangers to society these books and movies are. They would rather abuse medical people who specialize in abuse, abuse victims who have been through this sort of abuse in the books and movie than face up to the realities — their own addiction to violence — their own ignorance to abuse — and the epidemic of abuse and sexual violence sweeping our world — teaching it to our children because of books and movies like Fifty Shades of Grey.
Erica James abuses medical people with degree's who specialize in abuse, sexual violence who called her books and movie out as just that. She called our people antiabortionist because we also called her books and movie out. Her comments to us are on our website in those article links highlighted. Read Here

Who Erica James stole and plagiarized from; law suits are pending we were told Read Here 
Grey book review, we were asked to review the book, by the time we had finished the book looked like a Christmas tree all lit up with sticky notes on every page. Read Here  
Fifty Shades of Grey legitimizes and glamorizes violence against women. Read Here
Dakota Johnson a naive 26 year girl-women, still living in a Hollywood fantasy land Read Here
Ask E L James on twitter about abuse, what a joke ReadHere
Fifty Shades of Grey is fucked up when they do an episode of Criminal Minds about the same scenario Read Here
Fifty Shades of Grey is a how to manual for a Psychopath Read Here
FIFTY SHADES OF GREY "NO MORE" The how to guide for a Psychopath, an abuser, sexual assault, stalking  Read Here
Fifty Shades of control by Christian over Anastasia MASTER & SLAVE "SEX SLAVE" CONTRACT Read Here 
Every women wants a little Christian Grey in them "Apparently" Only the sexually deprived ones. Read Here
My own story of the Christian Grey i married is here, and its not a bloody fairy-tale, of hearts and flowers, it was a living nightmare READ HERE


 

 And it begins again. The franchise of Fifty Shades of Grey or the publicists of Dakota Johnson having comments removed who speak the truth about the zero chemistry between Dornan and Johnson. If you dare to criticize this utter rubbish, then they report your comment. 

We have seen and read the links of the Franchise of Fifty Shades of Grey and the publicists of Dakota Johnson  will go to; bullies for doing this exact thing. 

The Daily Mail is the only on line magazine who bows into the paid articles of the franchise and removes comments for no reason. 

Those comments do not violate any rules. We actually tried this out to see. And yes sure enough the franchise and the publicists of Dakota Johnson  had the comments removed, reported. Shows the desperation once again of this franchise and the publicists of Dakota Johnson.

They will allow complete bullying of Jamie Dornan and his wife but say one word about Dakota Johnson and her zero acting ability and your comment is gone.

Today 18.3.2016 we checked the article again and yes the bullies of the franchise and Publicists of Dakota Johnson are back at it again, bullying readers, bullying Jamie Dornan and his wife once again. And readers are complaining from all over the world about having their comments removed if they dare criticize Dakota Johnson, it is always only ever Dakota Johnson.
You don't have to be a rocket scientist to know its her Publicists doing this, reporting comments that don't suck up to her, their comments online today show this, out right bullying readers.
Last year we took screen shots of the articles from the New York Times and other leading magazines, criticizing the shocking acting of Dakota Johnson, zero chemistry. Those article screens shots are in our highlighted links.

19.3.2016 Direct line from the Daily Mail ( To say the least. Whereas Fifty Shades author E. L. James created a straightforward Cinderella romance, complete with dimwit heroine Anastasia) that comes straight from an article written by the Daily Mail today. 

Online article April 1 2016 reports: 
Report claims that Dornan was almost replaced due to his lack of chemistry with Johnson in the film. It wasn't only the actor who allegedly had some difficulties, as Johnson is said to have also struggled with onscreen chemistry.
The website claims that things got so bad that director James Foley considered replacing Dornan because of his lackluster performance.Dakota Johnson has said to have no chemistry and a very boring performance as usual. (It would seem nothing new then. Dakota Johnson has had no chemistry with any one she has been with in a movie, so whats new. At least Jamie Dornan has.)
Jamie has won awards for his work, he can act we have all seen it, but not in Fifty Shades of Grey. Is he a "really good actor"?, not really, there are a lot better obviously, and always new talent coming onto the scene everyday. And we all know votes and awards can also be brought by studios, this has been a long controversy for many years. Both actors, Dakota and Jamie are very wooden and boring on screen, lack sparkle that would make you want to actually pay money to see either of them, summed up very well in comments left by people on our site, "sex appeal of a dead fish".
Irish Film and Television Awards nominated and won. The Fall he won.
Then it goes down hill because of Fifty Shades of Grey, was nominated with Dakota Johnson and won Razzie awards. Worst actors actress, worst on screen chemistry. The movie also got a Razzie.
Right there says it all.

These books should never ever have been made into one movie, let alone three.

Every time there is an article on the Daily Mail which the franchise pay for, they have the Fifty Shades of Grey franchise and the publicists of Dakota Johnson  all over the articles, with their fake accounts, abusing people who call out Fifty Shades of Grey for exactly what it is rubbish, sexual violence and dangerous to our society.

But you don't even have to go that far in your comment. Just for writing the truth that Dakota Johnson who can not act her way out of a paper bag as one comment stated, was awarded worst actress of 2015, her family buy her acting roles; something what has also been written by the best movie critics in the world. No online screen presence, or acting ability at all, no chemistry between any leading men in any movie she has had role brought for her to be in.

All of which is true and written about in articles by other publications. 

Then today the franchise and the publicists of Dakota Johnson  has their people all over this article saying the most despicable things about Jamie Dornan's wife who has just had a baby. 

This is not the first time we have seen this in any article to do with Jamie, his wife Amelia.
Not one of those comments which were incredibly cruel were removed from the Daily mail article, none of them; yet they are the comments violating the rules. Once again showing those comments were orchestrated to give Jamie Dornan and his wife bad publicity.
Some of the comments involved Jamie's name and his wives name used in the same comment as Dakota Johnson, saying vicious slander about Jamie and his wife, while praising Dakota, and still not one of those vicious comments removed. Again orchestrated to bring Jamie Dornan and his wife down, and pump Dakota Johnson up; publicity driven  for Dakota Johnson's benefit only.
This is what this entire franchise has become, vicious bullies.

I am sure Jamie and his wife regret the very day they agreed to sign onto this complete rubbish.

You have to redact the simplest words, like (sex, psychologist, doctor, PhD, sexual violence, child abuse, rape, violence) the daily mail are allowed to use these words and much worse in their articles, but when you leave a comment you are not allowed to use them, to get a comment published with these words you have to use your redacting skills to do so.

None of these comments violate any rules. Yet these are the sorts of comments that are being deleted for speaking the truth intelligently.

Please also scroll down to read the comments on this article. Our comments are screened because of foul mouth abusers, who like to add every swear word in the dictionary to their comment. Who are worse than the vicious trolls on the Daily Mail.

Porn is prostitution with a camera

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Diaries of a woman, don't be seduced by the dark side. It is not a romance novel Read Article

Children are learning abuse, domestic violence, sexual violence from pornography. Leading medial researches have stated a child on average can have their first glimpse of pornography at the age of eight years old. Children as young as 10 years old are addicted to pornography. READ Artilce  PORN IS PROSTITUTION WITH A CAMERA, A WORLD WIDE HEALTH CRISIS

Human-sex-trafficking Break the chains

our children are the traffickers next target.

Please watch and learn how this is happening

 Diaries of a Women

You can read about our own book we wrote addressing abuse, sexual violence, rape, sex, love and so much more Shades of Grey

in a professional and responsible way. A learning book for teens, young and older adults.

There are part pages of chapter one up on the website link to read. The book is coming out this year and has been a collaboration of seven years of work. Set to be worlds best seller, we have had huge international support already. 100% of the book profits will be going to charities. 

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