It's always good to see more people tackling this abomination of Fifty Shades of Grey. I wanted to point out a few things:

Fifty Shades of Grey so called BDSM contract isn't a Dom/sub contract. Ketmakura on Das-Sporking pointed out that this is a Master/Slave relationship- it extends outside the bedroom and the slave has far less rights.

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A Psychopath sexual abuser can embed themselves into every day communities, they can be family men, or even women, with families. They can also be committing sexual abuse crimes, right under the nose of family, and friends without detection for years. They have a type they prey on, they will stalk their victims. Their urges do not go away they are always there, sometimes those urges become stronger over time triggered by factors around them.


Dr. Haim Ginott said: Children are like wet cement, what ever falls on them makes an impression.

Thirteen year old girls and under 18 year old children are reading the books Fifty Shades of Grey because of marketing pushing this book series, and movie onto minors. E J James is quoted in a live TV interview she does not want her teenage sons reading the books. But it would seem E L James doesn't have a problem with other children reading them. (of course  if it is bringing in the money)


A 13 year old girl died when two 13 year old minors acted out a scene from Fifty Shades of Grey, she bleed to death from her severe injuries that were inflicted upon her.  
A women was raped another two women were lured to a home by a rapist who was going to rape them using the book series scenarios to carry out his sexual assault.

The makers of the TV series Criminal minds have show viewers how dangerous this book series is doing an episode on it.
We have a serious problem when a book series and movie series that promotes sexual abuse, rape, stalking, domestic violence and has been seen as being all of that and much more by university studies and leading health professionals is allowed into our society and is seen as by the Author as romance and nothing more. This abuse to the Author E L James is romance, a loving relationship based on her life experiences.

When the lives of millions of vulnerable human beings are being put at risk because money, greed takes precedent over human life then we seriously do have a problem.

  “Fifty Shades of Grey legitimizes and glamorizes violence against women,” NCSE Executive Director Dawn Hawkins said in an email. “The story promotes torture as sexually gratifying and normalizes domestic violence.”

Fifty Shades of Grey  has medical experts and psychologists having a huge problem with the books and movie as does the BDSM community and victims of abuse. So they should have.

It should be clear to any and all readers that sexual abuse can stretch far beyond the bedroom, and clearly does if the plot of Fifty Shades of Grey is any sort of indicator.

Then we have Dakota Johnson coming out with comments in interviews.

I was on a forum with Jon  where we were discussing the dangers of the books and movie Fifty Shades of Grey. We have already covered more than once on other posts and articles that the books and movie Fifty Shades of Grey are a how to guide to a Psychopath and very dangerous to so many women.

E L James is still to this very day still trying to convince the intelligent women and men of this world it is the sex in the books and movie that those millions of sensible humans have a problem with, and nothing more.

No E L James it is the out right abuse and your poorly written and researched BDSM and how toxic these books and movie are for women, young girls and for men also that we have a huge problem with. It is not the Sex......would you like me to spell that word out for you "SEX". 

Me for one, i do not have a problem with sex, erotic sex, sex toys, bondage or BDSM, but not abuse.

So once again E L James miss lead millions of people, with bad research and medical information, endangering lives. No wonder a young innocent girl died because of these abuse books and movie.

E L James created her Psychopath Christian Grey to keep sex slaves to sexually, psychologically abuse them, just as he did Anastasia Steel and was still doing so in book 3.    

I know all about Psychopaths, abusers, sexual abuse, i was married to a CEO with money, power and influence a Christian Grey, except my husband much worse. I lived that hell for , so i know first hand how toxic and dangerous this type of man is. Read my story here

He is not a fairy-tale prince like E L James would have us believe. He is danger, and this type of man never changes, and is also a pathological liar who can sell snow to an Eskimo. They suck you into their web with their charm and deception. This is a warning to all the stupid gullible women and to the innocent young girls, this type of man is pure evil and danger.

I would be more than willing to debate this with you Erica....oh that's right i already have, in the end you blocked me on social media, because you could not answer my sensible, genuine questions, that i put to you.

As i have already written in a previous article you don't have a clue about sex, love, romance, erotic sex, BDSM or orgasms, your books research was shocking, so poorly done that reflects all the way through your entire garbage of books.

You are the last person on this planet i would take sexual, romantic, orgasm and BDSM advice from, because you don't have a clue about any of those things.

Erica. E L James please leave the karmasutra book alone as you clearly do not have any concept at what you are looking at or reading want to know what i mean read more

Yes women do want more from movies, but we don't want your garbage and we certainly do not want to watch a movie that is about a man abusing a women an innocent young women like what was reflected and written about in your books of Fifty Shades of Grey. This was your fantasy Erica to be treated this way, and Psychoanalyzing you it more than likely still is.

Also confirmed the mindless women who who drank up this dribble like it was their last drop of water on a secluded island are the same women who see Beyonce and Madonna turning the simplest pop song with no words into a leather-clad psychosexual performance,.......... deprived of sexual pleasures in their life they had nothing left to cling onto as the ship began to sink. 
(hang on, no wait that's Gilligan's Island, or was it The Poseidon adventure, sorry wrong mindless dribble Movie, although at least there was a little more drama and better story line than Fifty Shades of abuse.) 

"So again it was those women who bought all the movie tickets to prop up this crap. The ones who want a lot of Christian grey in them."....... "The women that got that tingling feeling in their nether-region from watching a young innocent vulnerable young women get abused, controlled, degraded, sexually abused, stalked, lied to, who found this abuse a turn on, just like E L James did".

The same women who bought the bullshit of the BDSM contract as being so sexy and erotic, when it is in fact a Master and Slave contract, a Sex Slave contract. (but how can this be so wrong E L James researched it, just like all the other bullshit in her books she said she researched, and women and young girls are taking this for gospel that its correct because E L James has pushed down the public's throat as being so.) Don't forget though the books are based on her life experiences, she said so in a live interview 2015. So this is the sexual life experiences of E L James...."please i am going to gag".

E L James wanted the jellyfish sexual position in the movie, yet not once does she mention the jellyfish sexual position in her books.
Come on Erica you have been playing with the Kamasutra book now haven't you. Trying to learn about sex, orgasms and pleasure. Well you could have done your homework before you wrote your dam book.
I don't think you really have a clue about sex, pleasure, eroticism, orgasms, romance your books clearly shows that. And you certainly know nothing about BDSM or contracts. 


The Kamasutra     " The Jellyfish "



  


 Knelt down in a comfortable surface (but not very soft as the bed), the man submits to the will of the woman in this position: she will descend towards his sex and will make penetrate slowly when she wishes it. Before they will be able to kiss, to rub her chests, to embrace each other, to caress the back of other one and to support softly the glans penis in the vagina and to rub it with the clitoris: hereby, the penetration will come with an infinite pleasure. During the coitus, if he cannot submit stoically to the movements of her, he can mark the pace taking it as the waist and attracting her body towards him. The clash of the faces offers the exciting opportunity to speak itself and to kiss itself in the mouth until the wished orgasm comes.

I think Erica just wanted to see Jamie Dornan naked like this, in the jellyfish sexual position, or maybe it was Dakota Johnson she wanted to see naked like this. She said in her live interview things got very hot and steamy on the set of the movie. "Come on Erica seeing two inches of Jamie Dornan's groin and pubic hair and maybe a bulge in his pants from time to time is enough to get you hot and steamy, then you are clearly deprived of sex or it takes very little to turn you on."

In the book E L James has it  almost every time Anastasia has an orgasm she passes out. Come on Erica you have been on those sexual torture websites again haven't you. Or would you have us believe Christian Grey is that much of a sexual God he can make Anna a sexual virgin pass out from her orgasms. (laughing sarcastically here) 
You have been watching the wrong type of porn Erica. 

Now the Fifty Shades of Grey Franchise has well an truly caught those sexually frustrated women into their net with all of this crap as well as their marketing getting them to buy their over priced sex toys that Have Fifty Shades of Grey written on them.....which will never get seen when its doing its job of pleasure.....or maybe those women need a how to manual, they just bought the toys to look at, to fantasize about as well??.....who knows. One thing i do know is i will not be buying into their marketing crap, E L James did not invent sex toys, they have been around for thousands of years. But as one person who commented on our website said she is strutting around as if she invented sex toys and sex.

Now the marketing team has a new target the young innocent girls 15 years old pushing t-shirts with sexual slogans.....yes they have their people on social media pushing the shit out of these t-shirts, pre-ordering the blueray movie Fifty Shades of Grey.....and if you live in Australia and order now you can have your name put on the video.....how special are they. "Please, i am going to vomit." 
T-shirts with this slogan..... My ideal weight is Christian Grey on top of me

The Fifty Shades of Grey people are on twitter and social media sharing clips....the sex scenes not edited from the R rated movie with minors encouraging them to share with other kids. I counted twenty videos, R rated full sex scenes sharing them with kids. Someone who access to the Universal studio movie has been making these movies. A report has been made to the FBI, movies and accounts copied. This people is a Federal crime. 

Yes women do want erotic, sexual movies other than porn, no one is making this for women. But we want romance like the old movies also, we don't want bloody abuse like that in Fifty Shades of Grey. 



Take the bad sex out of Fifty Shades of Grey books and there is no story except abuse and more abuse. 

A new study, conducted by Amy Bonomi of Michigan State University and two additional researchers from Ohio State, has found that E.L James’  Fifty Shades of Grey promotes sexual abuse. The study concentrated on guidelines for what constitutes partner abuse, citing stalking, isolation, humiliation, and a lack of boundaries as elements of Fifty Shades of Grey.

E.L James, the author of Fifty Shades of Grey, has said, “People who think that are sort of demonizing women who actually enjoy these kinds of relationships. What people get up to behind closed doors, providing it is safe, sane, consensual and legal, is completely up to them and it’s not for you, I or anybody to judge.”

E.L James’ defense of her novel believes  that it is the kinky sex in her book that people are reacting to negatively, yet the study gives no indication of such. The study is taking issue with incidences of humiliation, isolation, and stalking shown in the book, none of which are present in the more risqué sex scenes between Ana and Christian. It’s not the BDSM relationship that is at fault — it is the haunting emotional trauma that plagues Ana as she weeps, frets, and obsesses her way through their entire relationship. (it is not the kinky sex in the books we are objecting to, hell i have done kink, erotic and still do, i would know more about that then E L James ever could. She is quoted in a live interview, which is on youtube for anyone to see; the books are based on her life experiences. "fucking please" She is making a mockery of abuse victims who have actually been abused in this type of relationship, most of us unwilling also, trapped thinking we had to do this.) E L James would have us believe then that she was tied up, beaten with whips, a leather belt, fucked seven shades of Sunday, abused, controlled, manipulated, told what to do, who she could see, stalked, isolated from her family, threatened.....and this is just all part of any normal loving relationship.) YEH..... right E L James

E L James would have everyone believe she did extensive research into her book into BDSM and even enclosed a contract which she states is a BDSM contract when in fact it is not. Experts in the field of BDSM have told our websites and their comments are in a post detailing this for everyone to read the contract is in fact a Master and Slave contract, giving the submissive little rights. The slave and master contract extends outside of the bedroom like the one Christian wants Anna to enter into with him.....he wants to control every aspect of her life.

What has got millions of women coming out, speaking up about is the negative impact of these books, it is not the sex, it is the way Christian Grey treats women, abuses them and most of all Anastasia. How these books glamorize abuse dressing it up as false romance and love. He constantly abuses her, lies to her, manipulates her, isolates her. Still doing this in book three.

He makes her sign a non disclosure agreement so she cant discuss her relationship in any form with anyone. He is taking advantage of her innocence, of course she is going to have questions, want to talk to someone, he prevents her from doing this, he makes it so he is the only one Anna can ask. When she does ask him about things he lies to her, manipulates her, he even lies to her about the sex slave contract, at one point Anna thinks it is legally binding and Christian does nothing to dispel her from those beliefs.

His isolates her from her friends, her family, doesn't want Anna to go to Savannah to see her own mother, then she is gone one day and he stalks her, fly's 3,000 miles to stalk her. He doesn't do it out of love, he does it because he wants to control her, she is the only one who hasn't just done what he wants at the drop at a finger.  He gets into her apartment sells her car without telling her, has all of her banking details. Tracks her phone, says he would find her where she was, so she would not be able to hide from him. And this is all in book one, it gets worse as the books progress.

Another attribute of a Psychopath........ Manipulation, Control, Liars, A pathological desire to win at all cost, having to hurt people, either physically or emotionally, thrill seeks.  I was married to Psychopath, i know all the attributes all so well. 

For millions of women this is reality, this is the abuse they are either living now or have escaped from in the past. I am one of those women. I was married for 18 years i was Anastasia i was married to a Christian Grey, so i know all about this type of abuse relationship, hell i could write a dam book on it.

I was exactly like Anna, i left and i was drawn back in by the charms, then forced to stay by threats, i left more than once, then finally i found the strength and courage to leave for good. I did it for my children as much as for myself. But is was not easy it was incredibly hard, the hardest thing i have ever had to do. I was isolated my family thousands of miles away. The abuse didn't stop there, when i left i was abused again, in fact i was four months pregnant when i left the final time, my husband at the time beat me up, fractured my cheek bone, cuts and bruises and i suffered a miscarriage. Because he has money and power as well as connections, he got away with  beating the crap out of me and killing our unborn child, abusing our own children. Broke VRO's 57 times, videoed, recorded, witnessed......but when you are powerful, have money and Judges in your pocket and cops, you are above the law and can do what ever the fuck you want, even murder.

My husband being a CEO traveled overseas a lot. I learned a lot after i left, he was visiting sex dungeons in Europe and China having sex with underage girls and even men, boys. That was devastating for me to find out. He also left evidence of his perverse lifestyle, his other life outside of our own on our computer. Full computer evidence he was involved and has a membership with a pedophile club, they would bid on children to be raped....the highest bidder wins to watch sick fucked up men do this to innocent children. I still have all of his computer records, the evidence he was part of this then, and still would be. (stored away safely in a safe) He had corrupt cops break into my home which was all videoed on security cameras to try and steal this damning evidence on him. Those cops and my then husband got away with everything because of corruption.  (pedophiles never stop abusing children, they cant it is a sickness, a perverted disease in them that never goes away, it is there for life.)

I see the comments young girls of 16 years of age, what they are saying about Fifty Shades of Grey, the books and movie. Yes 16 year olds have been getting into the movies to see a R rated movie about abuse. They say Christian treats Anna like this beats the crap out of her because he loves her, he is showing he loves her. "Are you fucking serious." These girls have been caught up in this net of deception to what a real loving relationship entails. They think what E L James has written is gospel because of marketing pushing it down their throats as being so loving, so romantic, hearts and flowers. (give me the vomit bag now please) I have daughters thank god they are not buying this shit but many other young girls and women are.

 Christian Grey is an abusive stalker Psychopath  packaged as a romantic hero.

Fifty Shades of Grey  has medical experts and psychologists having a huge problem with the books and movie as does the BDSM community and victims of abuse. So they should have.

It should be clear to any and all readers that sexual abuse can stretch far beyond the bedroom, and clearly does if the plot of Fifty Shades of Grey is any sort of indicator.

E L James has not taken any responsibility for what she has written, when abuse victims have contacted her she sends them to abuse hotlines.

Fifty Shades of Abuse and Control

 Run Anastasia...... run now.....get back on that helicopter and don't look back.....the warning signs were there at the start. She was just so innocent and naive to see them. Know this so well, this was me.....so many women who fell into this trap of this sort of man. You are left hurt and scared when you come to your senses. Just like Anastasia, but she was in his net and he sucked her back in. Know that feeling also so well, i left more than once.

Christian says to Anastasia that he would find her if she hides from him if she runs away. He would find her anywhere she goes. (warning, warning.)

 “Does this mean you’re going to make love to me tonight, Christian?” Holy shit. Did I just say that? His mouth drops open slightly, but he recovers quickly.
“No, Anastasia it doesn’t. Firstly, I don’t make love. I fuck… hard”.

 “Do you do this to people or do they do it to you?”
His mouth quirks up, either amused or relieved.
“People?” He blinks a couple of times as he considers his answer. “I do this to women who want me to.”
I don’t understand.
“If you have willing volunteers, why am I here?”
“Because I want to do this with you, very much.”
“Oh,” I gasp. Why?
I wander to the far corner of the room and pat the waist high padded bench and run my fingers over the leather. He likes to hurt women. The thought depresses me.
“You’re a sadist?” (yes Anastasia i am into sadomasochism and i am a Psychopath)
“I’m a Dominant.” His eyes are a scorching gray, intense.
“What does that mean?” I whisper.
“It means I want you to willingly surrender yourself to me, in all things.”
I frown at him as I try to assimilate this idea.
“Why would I do that?”
“To please me,” he whispers as he cocks his head to one side, and I see a ghost of a smile.
Please him! He wants me to please him! I think my mouth drops open. Please Christian Grey. And I realize, in that moment, that yes, that’s exactly what I want to do. I want him to be damned delighted with me. It’s a revelation.
“In very simple terms, I want you to want to please me,” he says softly. His voice is hypnotic.
“How do I do that?” My mouth is dry, and I wish I had more wine. Okay, I understand the pleasing bit, but I am puzzled by the soft-boudoir-Elizabethan-torture set up. Do I want to know the answer?
“I have rules, and I want you to comply with them. They are for your benefit and for my pleasure. If you follow these rules to my satisfaction, I shall reward you. If you don’t, I shall punish you, and you will learn,” he whispers. I glance at the rack of canes as he says this.
“And where does all this fit in?” I wave my hand in the general direction of the room.
“It’s all part of the incentive package. Both reward and punishment.”
“So you’ll get your kicks by exerting your will over me.”
“It’s about gaining your trust and your respect, so you’ll let me exert my will over you. I will gain a great deal of pleasure, joy, even in your submission. The more you submit, the greater my joy – it’s a very simple equation.”
“Okay, and what do I get out of this?”

“Me,” he says simply.

 

“Is it easy to find women who want to do this?”
He raises an eyebrow at me.
“You’d be amazed,” he says dryly.
“Then why me? I really don’t understand.”
“Anastasia, I’ve told you. There’s something about you. I can’t leave you alone.” He smiles ironically. “I’m like a moth to a flame.” His voice darkens.

 “How many women?” I blurt out the question, but I’m so curious.
“Fifteen.”
Oh… not as many as I thought.
“For long periods of time?”
“Some of them, yes.”
“Have you ever hurt anyone?”
“Yes.”
Holy shit.
“Badly?”
“No.”
“Will you hurt me?”
“What do you mean?”
“Physically, will you hurt me?”
“I will punish you when you require it, and it will be painful.”

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 The sex contract of Christian Grey- megalomaniac-Psychopath......E L James.

Warning to all the innocent young women and gullible women; this is not normal, this is a signal that there is something wrong with this guy. Alarm bells should be ringing about now.

 

RULES

Obedience:
The Submissive will obey any instructions given by the Dominant immediately without hesitation or reservation and in an expeditious manner. The Submissive will agree to any sexual activity deemed fit and pleasurable by the Dominant excepting those activities which are outlined in hard limits (Appendix 2). She will do so eagerly and without hesitation.
Sleep:
The Submissive will ensure she achieves a minimum of seven hours sleep a night when she is not with the Dominant.
Food:
The Submissive will eat regularly to maintain her health and wellbeing from a prescribed list of foods (Appendix 4). The Submissive will not snack between meals, with the exception of fruit.
Clothes:
During the Term, the Submissive will wear clothing only approved by the Dominant. The Dominant will provide a clothing budget for the Submissive, which the Submissive shall utilize. The Dominant shall accompany the Submissive to purchase clothing on an ad hoc basis. If the Dominant so requires, the Submissive shall during the Term any adornments the Dominant shall require, in the presence of the Dominant and any other time the Dominant deems fit.
Exercise:
The Dominant shall provide the Submissive with a personal trainer four times a week in hour-long sessions at times to be mutually agreed between the personal trainer and the Submissive. The personal trainer will report to the Dominant on the Submissive’s progress.
Personal Hygiene/Beauty:
The Submissive will keep herself clean and shaved and/or waxed at all times. The Submissive will visit a beauty salon of the Dominant’s choosing at times to be decided by the Dominant, and undergo whatever treatments the Dominant sees fit.
Personal Safety:
The Submissive will not drink to excess, smoke, take recreational drugs, or put herself in any unnecessary danger.
Personal Qualities:
The Submissive will not enter into any sexual relations with anyone other than the Dominant. The Submissive will conduct herself in a respectful and modest manner at all times. She must recognize that her behavior is a direct reflection on the Dominant. She shall be held accountable for any misdeeds, wrongdoings, and misbehavior committed when not in the presence of the Dominant.
Failure to comply with any of the above will result in immediate punishment, the nature of which shall be determined by the Dominant.
Holy fuck. Anastasia said......you should have run then Anastasia.

“Anastasia, I need you supple, strong, and with stamina. Trust me, you need to exercise.” (because i am going to beat the shit out of you with my whips, and fuck you seven shades of Sunday)

Hard Limits (so if Anastasia had been happy with hard limits he would have done this to her also)
No acts involving fire play
No acts involving urination or defecation and the products thereof
No acts involving needles, knives, piercing, or blood
No acts involving gynecological medical instruments
No acts involving children or animals
No acts that will leave any permanent marks on the skin
No acts involving breath control

Ugh. He has to write these down! Of course – they all look very sensible, and frankly, necessary… any sane person wouldn’t want to be involved in this sort of thing surely? Though I now feel a little queasy.
“Is there anything you’d like to add?”

“I don’t know.”
“What do you mean you don’t know?”
I squirm uncomfortably and bite my lip.
“I’ve never done anything like this.”
“Well, when you’ve had sex, was there anything that you didn’t like doing?”
For the first time in what seems to be ages, I blush.

“Tell me,” he commands.

“Well… I’ve not had sex before, so I don’t know.”

 “Never?” he whispers. I shake my head.
“You’re a virgin?” he breathes. I nod, flushing again. He closes his eyes and looks to be counting to ten. When he opens them again, he’s angry, glaring at me.
“Why the fuck didn’t you tell me?” he growls.

Christian is running both his hands through his hair and pacing up and down his study. Two hands – that’s double exasperation. His usual concrete control seems to have slipped a notch.
“I don’t understand why you didn’t tell me,” he castigates me.

I want you. I’ve wanted you since you fell into my office,

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